Throughout this holiday time, when there is a lot happening which even lively individuals might occasionally anticipate a quiet break of January, it's very easy to neglect things. I expect I cannot be the only one who has once felt surprised awake at my desk by a message from someone wondering, "What time should we come over later?" Fear not; if you are distracted, and simply likely to make last-minute invitations, I have some solutions.
First and foremost, and I can't stress it enough, if you've been planning for months or just 15 minutes, the most enjoyable parties tend to be the most straightforward. What everyone expects are pleasant conversation, something to sip, and enough food that guests do not end up gnawing their arm on the ride back. Unless you are a fictional millionaire, no one anticipates a full bar, Michelin-starred catering and musical performances.
The greatest gatherings tend to be the easiest. Still, an idea is useful to mask the fact you have only thrown the party together while coming after a long day.
Still, an overarching idea works well to conceal that you have only put the party together while returning after work. By concept, think of something like Christmas. Going a bit more specific (Nordic holidays, for instance, featuring glögg, spiced punch, fish snacks plus crispbreads, Nordic beats selection; or Mexican Christmas, including ponche navideño, chilled brews and cocktails, along with lots of tortilla chips, salsa & avocado dip, and Luis Miguel playing) will focus the selection on the inevitable supermarket sweep.
At the shops, select a couple of drinks (one alcoholic for those who do, one not in case some avoid alcohol) plus a couple of appetizers suited to the theme, and buy a generous amount within your budget, instead of stressing over giving people too much choice. Nothing appears more welcoming and celebratory as a bounty – I would consistently prefer to be welcomed by a container stocked with cold bottles with reasonably priced bubbly than one glass of swanky bubbly. (Chuck in some bags of ice, as well; you'll find seldom enough ice.)
If you must impress and provide a special beverage, then mix in advance a large batch in a jug so that you're not stuck busying yourself with preparation while it's time to having fun. Once underway, ask a close friend or helper to keep an eye on it then top up when needed till it runs out. Do the same with the non-alcoholic punch; guests appreciate to take on a task at a party allowing them to share in the positive vibes.
On the punch front, whatever recipe you choose (there are many via search), avoid any recipe excessively sweet – children there need their own drinks – and should you own one, place flavor enhancers close by (avoid adding them in the mix since they are unsafe for individuals who avoid alcohol entirely). Take care with presentation so the non-alcoholic option doesn't seem unimportant; just spend a minute to slice a few rounds of lemon or orange to the punch.
In my view, I would avoid the store-bought platters of "party foods" available in supermarkets at this time of year; they seem overly complicated, and usually involve using the oven (should you opt for these, be aware that all guests secretly likes herb bread or small hot dogs regardless). It's my firm opinion it's hard to top a couple of really big dishes of good-quality snacks (plain salted is universally liked), and, provided there are no issues, a package of large and economical containers of mixed nuts typically found with global foods at the market, and maybe some olives without stones for colour (it's best to avoid to still be finding stones around the house in the future).
If, as my mother says, you think crisps proper food, a single big slab of tasty cheese served simply with crackers and some elegantly arranged fruit tends to seem visually appealing. A serving dish featuring cured or cooked salami or salmon laid out there (just one sort, unless you're wealthy), or an attractive pre-made pie, like those that pop up in specialty sections at this time of year, proves more satisfying, while you really will succeed with rustic pieces of flatbread, because they require no buttering.